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Black Flame is an invitation to awaken the darker, fiery, and juicy essence within you - where power meets surrender, and devotion opens into the sheer joy of being alive.
In this 12-hour temple immersion, we enter a sacred space of initiation into the mysteries of the Dark Tantra, Sacred BDSM, leadership and trust, soul and pleasure, shadow and light. A space to remember, to embody, and to celebrate the fullness of who you are.
Black Flame Temple is a full-day immersion in a sacred temple space - a journey that begins with grounding, preparation, and teaching, and unfolds into a living temple where the flame of desire, power, surrender, and devotion can be explored and experienced together with safety, reverence, and sacredness.
How the day will unfold?
1.
Grounding & Release
We begin together in circle, entering through bodywork, breathwork: grounding, emotional release & de-armoring - to land in our bodies, awaken life force, and release emotional charge. Here we meet our darkness with honesty, so we don’t carry unprocessed rage or grief into our sacred ritual of domination & surrender. This is the ground: clear, alive, and grounded.
2.
Consciousness & Awareness
We deepen into meditation and awareness practices, cultivating the presence and clarity needed for true surrender and conscious dominance.
3.
Teaching, Rituals, Practice & Exploration
Fire Ritual
To reconnect to our fire & power, to call in transformation and to remind us that fire is both destruction and renewal.
The Wheel of Consent Puja
A liberating and essential practice for all conscious relating. Here we discover the difference between taking and allowing, giving and receiving. We practice naming our desires, owning our yes and our no, and stepping into the power of consent. This becomes one of the foundation for everything that follows.
The RDBSMA conversation
A pre- Intimate session dialogue in which we communicate our boundaries, desires, intentions, safety & needs before entering a container together - that's creates a clear, nourishing, and pleasurable container for connection or practice.
Dom/Sub Dynamics
The Dom holds the charge, leads with consciousness and clarity; the Sub surrenders with trust and devotion. Together we explore leadership, surrender, archetypes, and desires.
The different intentions of Domination
Doming the dom's pleasure, doming for the Sub’s pleasure, and doming for God - in service of soul, truth, life and sacredness.
Awakening Spanking
Learning how to spank with presence, awakening energy, and igniting life force.
Basic Shibari
exploring the rope as a tool of presence, surrender & connection.
4.
Entering the sacred flow of the temple
Finally, the temple opens into free exploration - an open temple space where the teachings and initiations come alive through your bodies, your longings, your power, and your surrender. Nothing is scripted. The temple breathes us.
Black Flame is where darkness becomes sacred, where BDSM rituals becomes prayer, and where we remember that power and surrender are doorways home to our souls and to the divine.
Are you ready?
Is the Black Flame calling you in?
The spiritual binds
BDSM offers a unique opportunity to explore the edges of our Being through the same route that we explore our spirituality. Through rites, rituals, intentional actions and mindfulness.
There are endless ways to reach an altered state of consciousness, transcending our humanness when engaging in intimate play with a tantric approach.
Exploring the depth of the Dominant and submissive roles through a meaningful dynamic, can translate into discovering new parts of ourselves that were previously hidden in the shadows of our unconscious mind.
BDSM can bring to light what has been kept in the dark.
- Mistress Malissia -
full day immersion
When
11.10.2025 12:00 until 00:00
Where
Koh Phangan, Thailand -
In a vast sanctuary nestled in the jungle, surrounded by nature and silence with domes and spaces dedicated to practice, temple, and rest.
(Full details shared after registration.)
EXCHANGE
spark
The initiatory flicker
(Until 20.9)
4,500 thb
flame
The heat rises
(from 21.9 till 3.10)
5,500 thb
notes
Limited Capacity
This immersion is limited to 20 participants to preserve the intimacy and depth of the container.
Meals
Meals are not provided. Please bring your own food and nourishment to support yourself throughout the day. A kitchen and fridge will be available on site for you to store and prepare what you bring.
Integration Gathering
An integration meeting will take place a day after the immersion. The exact time, and location will be shared soon - only with those who are registered.
Registration
Please note that I may ask for a short video call before confirming your registration. This is to ensure alignment, clarity, and to support the safety of the temple container.
Agreements
Black Flame is not an ordinary gathering.
This is a temple - a space of power, beauty, surrender, and devotion. To hold the depth and safety of this container, we enter together under clear agreements:
1.
Confidentiality
What happens in the temple stays in the temple. Stories, faces, and experiences are not shared outside without explicit consent.
2.
Sovereignty & Consent
Your body, your choice, always. A clear “yes” is celebrated, and a clear “no” is honored immediately. Silence or hesitation is never a yes.
3.
Respect of Boundaries
No one touches, engages, or enters another’s space without clear invitation and agreement.
4.
Sobriety
We come into this temple clear. No alcohol or drugs are permitted, so that our bodies, hearts, and spirits remain fully present.
5.
Sacred Intention
This is not a sex party. This is a temple of initiation, teaching, and exploration. We meet desire, power, and surrender in service of growth, aliveness, and soul.
6.
Teachable & Coachable
You agree to come as a seeker, a student and an explorer. To be open to guidance, coaching, and teaching. To stay with the process even when it feels challenging.
7.
Commitment to Presence
We consent to feel. To stay present with our body, breath, and emotions. To honor our process and one another’s, even when discomfort arises.
8.
Aftercare & Responsibility
Each of us is responsible for our own body, emotions, and integration. Aftercare is part of the practice - both giving and receiving.
9.
Honor of the Space
The land, the domes, and the temple itself are sacred. We move with care, presence, and reverence.
10.
Community Care
We hold one another with kindness. If at any moment you feel unsafe or unsure, the facilitator and the team are here to support you.
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By entering this temple, you commit to these agreements.
If at any point these commitments are not honored, the facilitator hold the right to ask a participant to leave the space - without refund - in order to protect the integrity, safety, and sacredness of the container.
About Your Guide
Hello beautiful soul,
My name is Yael,
A therapist and priestess devoted to guiding you back to the truth of who you are. Through bodywork, breathwork, emotional release, grounding practices, and working with life force energy, I help awaken your essence and align you with your soul’s unique expression. My vision is to see humanity deeply connected to its true self, and my greatest calling is to bring this vision to life through the creation of a temple - a sacred space where body, soul, and life converge.
My journey began as a child growing up in an Orthodox society. Even then, I felt a pull toward what was alive and true for me, a force that guided me to explore life beyond the traditions I was born into. This calling eventually led me to leave my family and community, embarking on a path of self-discovery to uncover my essence and purpose (today we are happily connected with love snd acceptance to each other).
I was drawn to Italy, where I immersed myself in intensive training in body and breath work, inspired by the teachings of Wilhelm Reich and Alexander Lowen. These practices transformed me on every level, teaching me to de-armor the body, release emotions, and ground deeply in the present moment. Before this, I also trained in yoga, which cultivated my connection to movement and flow as a foundation for my work.
My journey deepened as I was initiated into priesthood, where I began working directly with soul and life-based power. This was a pivotal moment when everything came together - the bodywork & breathwork training, and my connection to my essence, my soul. I realized that my purpose is to support others in aligning with their aliveness, power, and soul essence.
For more than a decade, I have been committed to this path, offering spaces for transformation, connection, and awakening. My work continues to evolve, weaving together bodywork, soul work, and sacred gatherings. Today, I live on a tropical little island- Koh Phangan, Thailand, where the natural rhythms of the island inspire me to embody and share my greatest vision and calling:
The creation of a temple - a sanctuary for body and soul. This temple exists not only as a physical space I am bringing to life but also as a presence within my work, guiding you back to your essence and the power of life moving through you.
If you feel drawn to rediscover your aliveness, align with your essence, and awaken your soul’s expression, I invite you to join me on this path. Together, we can reconnect to the pulse of life, the truth of who you are, and the vision of what you are here to embody.
In service,
Yael Asnapy
For those who hear the call
welcome to the Temple !
From safety to surrender
From the outside, BDSM has the reputation of being a hardcore and extreme way of exploring our sexuality.
But once you get closer, you realize that given this type of play is rooted in the principles of SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) or RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), it actually allows all players involved to feel in trust exploring their limits, within a predetermined perimeter of play.
Before play begins, there is always negotiation taking place, building trust and safety, allowing the Domme and the sub to be ''on the same page'' regarding the scene they are entering together.
The more we feel safe, the easier it is to surrender into bliss.
- Mistress Malissia -
