Black Flame is an invitation to awaken the darker, fiery, and juicy essence within you - where power meets surrender, and devotion opens into the sheer joy of being alive.
In this temple, we enter a sacred space of initiation into the mysteries of the Dark Tantra, Sacred BDSM, leadership and trust, soul and pleasure, shadow and light. A space to remember, to embody, and to celebrate the fullness of who you are.
The Black Flame Temple is an initiation space to explore the sacred dance of conscious domination and submission within a held ritual in a sacred temple container.
Through teaching, guided exploration, and open flow, we will enter deeper layers of power, surrender, and devotion - learning how these energies can be expressed in service of the soul and as an expression of the soul, rather than from unconscious patterns.
Together we will explore:
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Three pathways of domination: domination for the pleasure of the Dom, domination for the pleasure of the Sub, domination in service of the soul.
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Consent, boundaries, container creation, and aftercare.
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Free-flow with what we learned and what feels alive within a sacred temple space where participants can explore with each other and with a variety of BDSM tools, with presence, curiosity, safety and respect.
This temple invites us to reclaim parts of ourselves often pushed into the shadows - the desire to lead, to surrender, to feel deeply, and to meet one another in truth.
Come to get in touch with your fire of power and devotion.
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Black Flame is where darkness becomes sacred, where BDSM rituals becomes prayer, and where we remember that power and surrender are doorways home to our souls and to the divine.
Are you ready?
Is the Black Flame calling you in?
The spiritual binds
BDSM offers a unique opportunity to explore the edges of our Being through the same route that we explore our spirituality. Through rites, rituals, intentional actions and mindfulness.
There are endless ways to reach an altered state of consciousness, transcending our humanness when engaging in intimate play with a tantric approach.
Exploring the depth of the Dominant and submissive roles through a meaningful dynamic, can translate into discovering new parts of ourselves that were previously hidden in the shadows of our unconscious mind.
BDSM can bring to light what has been kept in the dark.
- Mistress Malissia -
When
11.4.2026 18:00 until 00:00
Where
Koh Phangan, Thailand -
(Full details shared after registration.)
EXCHANGE
spark
The initiatory flicker
(Until 5.4)
1 person: 2,000 thb
male and female registering together: 3,000 thb for both
flame
The heat rises
(from 6.4 till 10.4)
1 person: 2,500 thb
male and female registering together: 3,500 thb for both
Dress code:
Black and red.
Leather, latex, chains, and other dark temple expressions are welcome.
Come embody the dark, the sacred, and the playful.
notes
Limited Capacity
This container is limited to 40 participants to preserve the intimacy and depth of the container.
gender balance
We do our best to create a balanced container of men and women, however this cannot be guaranteed.
Some parts of the workshop include partner-based exercises for learning and exploration. You will be invited to choose your partners freely.
At times, it may happen that there is not an equal mix available. In such cases, you may be invited to work with whoever is present, including the same gender.
We ask participants to come with openness and willingness to engage in the process as it unfolds.
If you prefer, you are welcome to register with a partner and stay together during the structured exercises.
This is a participatory space - we ask everyone who joins to be willing to take part, rather than observe from the side.
During the open exploration part, you are free to choose who you wish to connect with.
food
Drinks, fruits and snacks will be offered.
Registration
Please note that I may ask for a short video call before confirming your registration. This is to ensure alignment, clarity, and to support the safety of the temple container.
Agreements
Black Flame is not an ordinary gathering.
This is a temple - a space of power, beauty, surrender, and devotion. To hold the depth and safety of this container, we enter together under clear agreements:
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Confidentiality
What happens in the temple stays in the temple. Stories, faces, and experiences are not shared outside without explicit consent.
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Sovereignty & Consent
Your body, your choice, always. A clear “yes” is celebrated, and a clear “no” is honored immediately. Silence or hesitation is never a yes.
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Respect of Boundaries
No one touches, engages, or enters another’s space without clear invitation and agreement.
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Sobriety
We come into this temple clear. No alcohol or drugs are permitted, so that our bodies, hearts, and spirits remain fully present.
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Sacred Intention
This is not a sex party. This a sex positive space, a space that receive all kind of ways of your souls expression. This is a temple of initiation, teaching, and exploration. We meet desire, power, and surrender in service of growth, aliveness, and soul.
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Teachable & Coachable
You agree to come as a seeker, a student and an explorer. To be open to guidance, coaching, and teaching. To stay with the process even when it feels challenging.
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Commitment to Presence
We consent to feel. To stay present with our body, breath, and emotions. To honor our process and one another’s, even when discomfort arises.
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Aftercare & Responsibility
Each of us is responsible for our own body, emotions, and integration. Aftercare is part of the practice - both giving and receiving.
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Honor of the Space
We ask everyone to honor the temple space -- the environment, the materials, and all that is provided.
Please use everything with care and responsibility, and avoid any damage to the space or its items.
For hygiene and safety, it is required to always place a cloth, towel, or sheet beneath your body when in contact with shared surfaces.
This helps maintain a clean, respectful, and safe space for all.
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Community Care
We hold one another with kindness. If at any moment you feel unsafe or unsure, the facilitator and the team are here to support you.
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By entering this temple, you commit to these agreements.
If at any point these commitments are not honored, the facilitator hold the right to ask a participant to leave the space - without refund - in order to protect the integrity, safety, and sacredness of the container.
About Your Guide
Hello beautiful soul,
My name is Yael,
A therapist and priestess devoted to guiding you back to the truth of who you are. Through bodywork, breathwork, emotional release, grounding practices, and working with life force energy, I help awaken your essence and align you with your soul’s unique expression. My vision is to see humanity deeply connected to its true self, and my greatest calling is to bring this vision to life through the creation of a temple - a sacred space where body, soul, and life converge.
My journey began as a child growing up in an Orthodox society. Even then, I felt a pull toward what was alive and true for me, a force that guided me to explore life beyond the traditions I was born into. This calling eventually led me to leave my family and community, embarking on a path of self-discovery to uncover my essence and purpose (today we are happily connected with love snd acceptance to each other).
I was drawn to Italy, where I immersed myself in intensive training in body and breath work, inspired by the teachings of Wilhelm Reich and Alexander Lowen. These practices transformed me on every level, teaching me to de-armor the body, release emotions, and ground deeply in the present moment. Before this, I also trained in yoga, which cultivated my connection to movement and flow as a foundation for my work.
My journey deepened as I was initiated into priesthood, where I began working directly with soul and life-based power. This was a pivotal moment when everything came together - the bodywork & breathwork training, and my connection to my essence, my soul. I realized that my purpose is to support others in aligning with their aliveness, power, and soul essence.
For more than a decade, I have been committed to this path, offering spaces for transformation, connection, and awakening. My work continues to evolve, weaving together bodywork, soul work, and sacred gatherings. Today, I live on a tropical little island- Koh Phangan, Thailand, where the natural rhythms of the island inspire me to embody and share my greatest vision and calling:
The creation of a temple - a sanctuary for body and soul. This temple exists not only as a physical space I am bringing to life but also as a presence within my work, guiding you back to your essence and the power of life moving through you.
If you feel drawn to rediscover your aliveness, align with your essence, and awaken your soul’s expression, I invite you to join me on this path. Together, we can reconnect to the pulse of life, the truth of who you are, and the vision of what you are here to embody.
In service,
Yael Asnapy
For those who hear the call
welcome to the Temple !
From safety to surrender
From the outside, BDSM has the reputation of being a hardcore and extreme way of exploring our sexuality.
But once you get closer, you realize that given this type of play is rooted in the principles of SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) or RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), it actually allows all players involved to feel in trust exploring their limits, within a predetermined perimeter of play.
Before play begins, there is always negotiation taking place, building trust and safety, allowing the Domme and the sub to be ''on the same page'' regarding the scene they are entering together.
The more we feel safe, the easier it is to surrender into bliss.
- Mistress Malissia -
